Urge Surfing
Written by Muneeb Rana · Medically reviewed by Safi Allah Khan · Last updated 24 October 2026
Quick answer: Urge surfing is a mindfulness technique for cravings: instead of fighting or giving in, you notice the urge, describe it in your body, breathe, and watch it rise, peak and fall like a wave. It comes from mindfulness-based relapse prevention, which reduced relapse in addiction treatment studies.
Where urge surfing comes from
Urge surfing was developed by psychologist Alan Marlatt and is part of mindfulness-based relapse prevention (MBRP). In a trial, MBRP reduced relapse compared with standard treatment at 12 months (Bowen et al., 2014).
Step by step
- Sit or stand somewhere safe, away from your phone. 2. Notice where you feel the urge: chest, stomach, face. 3. Rate it 0–10. 4. Breathe slowly and describe the sensations. 5. Watch it change. Rate again every minute until it's under 3.
Use a timer
The urge timer gives you a 10-minute window with prompts.
Practice tips
Start with mild urges. Practise mindfulness at other times too (Mayo Clinic). Log each attempt.
Combine with other tools
Urge surfing works well with HALT and how to deal with urges.
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Download Raze free. Optional in-app purchase.
Sources
- Bowen et al. (2014), Mindfulness-based relapse prevention RCT, JAMA Psychiatry: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov (accessed 24 October 2026)
- Witkiewitz & Marlatt (2004), Relapse prevention for alcohol and drug problems, American Psychologist: doi.org (accessed 24 October 2026)
- Mayo Clinic: Mindfulness exercises: mayoclinic.org (accessed 24 October 2026)
FAQ
What is urge surfing?
A mindfulness technique for riding out cravings without acting on them.
Does urge surfing work?
It's part of MBRP, which reduced relapse in trials.
How long does an urge last?
Often minutes.
Can I urge surf in bed?
It's better to get up and move away from your phone first.
Who created urge surfing?
Psychologist Alan Marlatt.